I have been visiting my sons this past weekend and had a wonderful time with them. I cherish our time together and all the fun and laughter we share. For the past four and a half hours, I have been sitting on the airport runway waiting to fly home. The plane has been very hot, and with each … [Read more...] about Acquiring patience while waiting to get pregnant
Take a vacation from the stress of your daily routine
There are so many benefits to taking a vacation from your daily routine. You do not have to leave town for a vacation. Plan a vacation at home. Turnoff your cell phone and computer and do not check them while on vacation.You will be surprised by how quickly you relax and de-stress when you unplug … [Read more...] about Take a vacation from the stress of your daily routine
The life lessons of infertility
I have been on a much needed vacation this week to the mountains. I wanted go spend time alone in silence and reflection, eat healthy food, swim the lake, hike in the woods, and rest. My youngest son just graduated from high school and left home for an internship before starting college this Fall. I … [Read more...] about The life lessons of infertility
How to release the secret heartache of Mother’s Day
Mother’s Day (and Father’s Day) are approaching, and they are especially hard for one out of every eight couples of childbearing age who are struggling with infertility. Some of the most painful aspects of this secret heartache, include: * The 2012 Mother’s Day is a stark reminder that another year … [Read more...] about How to release the secret heartache of Mother’s Day
Do one thing to make a difference during National Infertility Awareness Week
This is National Infertility Awareness Week....and you may not know this if you are not on infertility websites. The sad news is that most people do not know much of anything about infertility unless it touches their life in some way-maybe through a friend, a family member, or a coworker. Everyone … [Read more...] about Do one thing to make a difference during National Infertility Awareness Week
Gestational surrogacy: psychological screening
In my last blog, I talked about the three main professionals you need to work closely with during a gestational surrogacy arrangement: the medical team, the attorney, and the counselor. Since I am an infertility counselor who has done psychological screening of surrogates and intended parents for … [Read more...] about Gestational surrogacy: psychological screening
Super surrogate gives birth to 15th baby
It's true...15 babies! What a blessing this woman, Meredith Olafson, has been to so many families. I think we are all here for special reasons, and her life's purpose includes having babies and giving the gift of life to others. I can't think of a more blessed gift anyone could give to another … [Read more...] about Super surrogate gives birth to 15th baby
Create your mantra of hope for getting pregnant
Do you feel like giving up and stopping infertility treatment? Are you discouraged and wondering if you will be able to get pregnant and have a baby? Hang onto your hope… even if it feels like you are hanging on a cliff by your fingernails. I know this is your dream to be a mother, and when you … [Read more...] about Create your mantra of hope for getting pregnant